When a man loves a woman ...curled from odeyemi Tolulope's note(unedited)

it's a film i watched , and i think it makes a lot of sense , but come to think of it in the real sense , it makes more sense , when i personally is being tripped by a guy , a guy who goes all the way to make me feel loved , a guy who make sacrifices all to make sure am protected , but how much sacrifices , i ask myself ,can he make to prove his love , how far is he willing to go to show me he is my long lost bone that 's found , when i watched this film it takes me back to the first fictional love story in the world , which is 'romeo & juliet 'this is my perfect guy that lays it all down for the sake of his beloved , but really is it really perfect ?they experienced love , suffered for it and eventually died for it,people over times have called this kind of love 'immature and unrealistic' which to an extent i agree but every lady wants a romoe kind of love , guys don't blame us it's our configuration, it 's who we are , we want to be sure this guy can do it all for us but it can't sure happen again , yeah i am beginning to hear and see reactions from u guys , but wait and hear me out ,In the Nigeria contest how far is a guy ready to go for his loved one'girl' can he forgo his club football march like that of yesterday'Man Utd' to hear my full gist about how my day went, can he forsake 'hanging with the guys ' to watching a old romantic film with me together on the couch, can he stay with me when the aging process of menopause sets in and hot flushes comes in , when the desire to have sex wanes , when all that i do then is to sweat , get irritated, will he still loves me when the once upfront breasts becomes sagging and droopy ,will he still go gaga on me ,if when i have his child spit all over my body and God knows that am damn stinking cos of child' vomit .these are the questions that comes to my mind ,when watching this great movie 'when a man loves a woman' a man who stood by his wife life uncertainties came in form of a ravaging cancer of the breasts, wwill he wait by me when the once adored figure 8 body is turned pale and lifeless by Chemotherapy , these are the questions that comes to every lady's mind when a guy is professing his love on his knees , she is thinking will he still love me like this in 40 years to come , will he walk the aging process with me? will he a be a firm and present father to our kids because all of these is what a man does when he loves a woman.hope to hear comments from u guys ,it spurs me on ,luv to all