Wednesday, March 25, 2009

When is my time oh Lord?

Right there on my table in the office is Tinuke’s wedding invitation Shade told me, Tinuke of all people! Who ever thought she was going to get married? While on campus, she was the happening girl. There was no party she didn’t attend, there was no happening boy she didn’t sleep with. I can’t even count the number of abortions she had! All the doctors in the hospitals all over knew her and most of them even slept with her. We even thought she was going to contact H.I.V and pass on just like that but hey, she is getting married! Not only getting married, she is getting married to a rich bachelor who just came from the UK she said.I am still a virgin, I have waited so much for the right man to come along, I have kept myself for the wedding night, I have been so faithful to God and to my believe. But nobody is proposing to me! What could be wrong? She broke down and started crying right there in front of me.Well you see, I started, the way you led your past most times affect the future, so I am happy for you. The fact that Tinuke led that kind of life and is getting married now doesn’t mean everyone like her will get married, she is just lucky and who knows, her luck might run out sooner or later when the guy’s friends discover they all have slept with her. Anyway, don't let us talk about Tinuke, lets talk about you and how to attract the right man.Look at the kind of gathering you have been attending (church/mosque), the kind of clothes you have been putting on, the way you present yourself, the way you attend to issues at work or in your neighborhood. All these will attract the right or wrong man. You need to let them know you are available and not behave as if you are engaged to one invisible guy in Potiskum. Join groups in your church/mosque at least to get to interact with single people like you.I really wonder why some pretty girls don't get hooked up and they start crying in their closet when their friends are getting married. Do the right thing girl, your man is around the corner!!!

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