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Getting engaged

The prelude to a wedding is the whole act of getting engaged and having an engagement. What is getting engaged? Why is it so important to couples that would like to get married?Getting engaged is the process that occurs when couples agree to get married. In today's society it is mostly the man that asks the woman to marry him, but in increasing numbers women are becoming the ones to ask the question. After they have agreed, they are said to be "engaged" to each other. It is at this moment that a woman engaged to man is called that his fiancée, and he becomes her fiancé.Getting engaged is almost the same as betrothal, often time these terms have been used interchangeably. There is a difference however, as betrothal is a formal arrangement or agreement involving the marrying couple and their families and in some cases the community in which they live in. It is traditional that when couples become engaged, the woman wears an engagement ring. The rings are worn to celebrate their engagement. The engagement ring is not the same as wedding rings, which is presented to each other during the wedding ceremonies. Tradition has it that engagement rings should be worn on the third finger of left hand.When couples get engaged the period between the engagement and the wedding is unusually an exciting time for them as they begin to get a feel of what the marriage is going to be like and their respective role in the marriage. The couple's relationship will move to a different level because they looking forward to a life together.They will also be making careful preparations for their wedding day, and will begin to discuss in a serious way any plans they have for their future together, and layout a direction for the family they will create.When couples go through the process of getting engaged, they are this virtue immediately thought of in the community they live in as husband and wife. There is a much higher and deeper level of intimacy, since the couple will be taking on a greater acceptance of their up coming roles as husband and wife.Getting engaged brings about for the couple the spending of more time with each other. They will begin to do a lot of things together, operating like a married couple. By doing these activities together they help to strengthen their relationship and their bond, bringing them closer together and possibly their families. After getting engaged it is common for couples go to live together once their engagement is formally announced.Some couples that are not living in the same country or are some distance away from each other do actually get engaged when their intent is to get married at some time in the distant future. Depending on the couple and their beliefs and customs the engagement period may be very shot or very long. There are certain religious groups that require that couples be engaged for up to a year before they can get married. Hence getting engaged for them is the beginning of a very long preparation period for the couple.Getting engaged is sometimes followed, in some cultures, by a formal announcement and a massive celebration or party. This is to commemorate the engagement of the couple and their commitment to each other. The engage couple is presented to the world almost like a coming out party. It is important for couples to remember that getting engaged is the beginning of their journey together and they are not to take it lightly.

Romantic proposals

Now guys, lets make this group very interesting. You dont know whose life you might touch by sharing your stories.If you are married or engaged, can you share how you were proposed to?If you are not yet engaged, please share how you will love to be proposed to or proposal stories you have heard.lets be creative guys, lets see whose story will be the most romantic!!!

22 ways to make a gurl smile

1 . Tell her she is beautiful or gorgeous(not fine, or sexy)2 . Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its just for a second.3 . Kiss her on the forehead/ neck.4 . Leave her voice messages to wake up to.5 . When she is upset, hold her tight and tell her how much she means to you.6 . Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.7 . Pick her over all the other girls you hang out with.8 . Write her notes. (she loves them)9 . Introduce her to family and friends . . . as your girlfriend and not your chick!10 . Play with her hair.11 . Pick her up, tickle her, and play-wrestle with her.12 . Sit in the park and just talk to her.13 . Tell her funny jokes, tell her stupid jokes, or just tell her jokes.14 . Let her fall asleep in your arms.15 . If she's mad at you, kiss her.16 . Give her piggyback rides.17 . Bring her flowers18 . Treat her the same around your friends as you do when your alone.19 . Look her in the eyes and smile.20 . Let her take as many pictures of you as she wants.21 . Kiss her in the rain.22 . If your in love with her . . . tell her.this is not my work!!!

Marriage experiences

The bride tells her husband, "Honey, you know I'ma virgin and I don'tknow anything about sex. Can you explain it to mefirst?""OK, Sweetheart. Putting it simply, we will call yourprivate place 'theprison' and call my private thing 'theprisoner'. So what we do is: putthe prisoner in the prison.And then they made love for the first time.Afterwards, the guy is lying face up on the bed, smilingwithsatisfaction.Nudging him, his bride giggles, "Honey the prisonerseems to haveescaped."Turning on his side, he smiles. "Then we will have tore-imprison him."After the second time they spent, the guy reaches for hiscigarettes butthe girl, thoroughly enjoying the new experience of makinglove, giveshim a suggestive smile, "Honey, the prisoner is outagain!"The man rises to the occasion, but with the unsteady legsof a recentlyborn foal.Afterwards, he lays back on the bed, totally exhausted.She nudges him and says, "Honey, the prisoner escapedagain."Limply turning his head, He YELLS at her, "Hey, itsnot a life sentence,OKAY!

Check your thinking skills

1) A cowboy rode into town on Friday, spent 2 days and rode out on Friday. How can this be possible? Lets see the first person to reply to this in the group.2) Give a seven letter word that is before God, more evil than the devil, the poor has it,the rich need it and if you eat it, you will die. What is the word?Goodluck in thinking.