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I am Tricia, 28 years old, 5ft 9, bright as the stars, beautiful. When I say beautiful, I mean every bit of it. I have had compliments from men like "hey, you must have dropped from heaven", "God must have spent extra time creating you", "An angel must be missing in heaven" and so on. My beauty is not my strong point, I am very eloquent, people take me to be the daughter of the queen, and they always want to talk to me. I attended a popular elementary school. School fees in that school can’t be afforded by an average man. Most of the teachers are foreign nationals, I grew up in affluence, I had it all. My parents were so loving, they gave us everything we needed, they showered us with so much affection that I didn’t imagine a life without them.

Shortly after my 9th birthday, the driver came to school early one afternoon to pick us, he had a long face. He was usually smiley and playful so I was a bit worried. I asked Uncle James if all was well, he replied in the affirmative but still carried the funny face. We got home that afternoon to meet some of my uncles and aunts. They weren't looking happy either. People started talking in hush tones and immediately, I knew something terrible had happened. As the first child in a family of four children, my siblings and I were all young and innocent. We had been pampered all our lives. It was therefore a rude shock when we were told our parents who travelled to London died in a plane crash! The world crumbled right in front of us. We became orphans, the birds stopped singing, the stars stopped shining, the world came to a stand still. Blood obviously stopped flowing in my veins because the next thing I remembered was waking up in a hospital bed! Though I was small, I had heard the story of orphans and knew we were in for a rough time.

Our uncles tried their best but that gap was there, they couldn’t do as much as our parents would have.

We moved in with Uncle Tom and his family. They were not as comfortable as we were but well over average. He tried his best to make us happy knowing the kind of life we were living but it was never like before.

On the night of my sixteenth birthday, my uncle came to my room. He had lust in his eyes, he was visibly shaking, he had access to our rooms so he could enter anytime. He looked at me with lust, I couldn’t believe my uncle lusted after me! That night, he gave me a necklace and told me to try it. It was then I saw the bulge on his trouser!

To be continued!

Me, back in the days…

with T-laf, comedian

barcelors in silverbird Galleria, dont even like ice-cream lol!

with baba de baba, a comedian

barcelors in silverbird Galleria

at the beach here, dont know this guy lol >>>>

ONLINE DATING 101

You've been exchanging correspondence for a while now and you feel that you've found a great match! You're ready to take your virtual friendship to the next level, but don't have the slightest clue as how to do it. It's simple; flirt a little.

Online flirting is not about dropping one-liners; it's an art form. And an art form cannot be forced. When making conversation, be as natural as possible, just let it happen. Read between the lines of what he/she is saying in their messages to you and then respond to that in an almost suggestive way. By now you should know what their sense of humour is like, so be playful in your replies and be their kind of funny. When offering compliments, do so only if you really mean it – being insincere and dishing out phony compliments can backfire horribly, and after all the time you've spent laying down the groundwork for your friendship, you don't want to ruin things now.

Because you're online, why not make use of the resources at your disposal? Share a link to a story or picture or video that relates to your match's hobbies and interests. It shows that you have actually been paying attention to their conversations and the things they've been telling you. It also gives you more things to talk about, like whether they enjoyed what you'd sent them.

Another way of being playful is asking questions that'll lead your online dating match to think about meeting in person. For instance, asking them if you were to go out to a romantic dinner, where would the two of you go. This puts the idea in their head that you're open to meeting, but that you want the meeting to be more than plutonic.

Once you get a sense that they're open to online flirting (and you will pretty quickly), it's very easy to get caught up in the excitement of it and fire off replies at every opportunity. Don't. Maintain a certain level of mystery and aloofness that keeps them interested in the conversations but that doesn't lead them to believe that you've gotten bored and moved on.

Online flirting is probably the only way you'll ever get to stop yourself from blurting out those embarrassing remarks or lame comments. When having a face-to-face conversation, we're often forced to say the first thing that comes to mind to avoid those awkward silences. But the nature of online conversations allows you to censor everything you say. So make the most of this perfect opportunity at self-censorship and have fun flirting online.

READ YOUR DATE.

Finally…You’re out on a date! You want to know what she thinks about you. You want to know the meaning of her smile and gaze. You want to discover a variety of non- verbal clues to find out about her real personality. You want to know what she really thinks about you. You want to read her like a book, so here’s how!

The eyes: Mirrors of the soul

Good signs:

An intense gaze that happens for more than five seconds doesn’t necessarily mean your date’s into you. This might be a seduction pose to get you to bed with her. Check your date’s pupils while she gazes, dilation indicates arousal.
If your date insist having eye contact beyond a few seconds, she wants to make you feel nervous or stir up lust or attraction. If you do the same, then the feeling is mutual.
Eye contact suggests sincerity and truthfulness.
A quick eyebrow lift is a universal sign that your date is into you.
Bad signs:

Excessive blinking means your date is lying or uncomfortable.
If your date’s eyes roll upward, she might be pissed or she probably disagreed with what you are saying or doing.
If your date avoids eye contact, she might be lying, uncomfortable or just plain shy.
If your date is blinking slowly, this might mean she is losing interest on the conversation you are having.
The mouth: Conversations, kisses and devious smiles

Good signs:

If your date has an upturned close-mouth grin, she is shy or insecure but appreciates your company.
If your date smiles with teeth barely showing, she is enjoying your company.
If your date licks her lips all the time, you are arousing her.
If your date laughs easily during conversations or jokes, she is very comfortable and relaxed with you.
If your date gives a big smile, she admires you a lot.
If your date gives you a soft peck on the cheek, she likes you and respects you as well.
If your date gives you a long lusty kiss, she is sexually empowered with thoughts of you.
Bad signs:

If your date half smiles the whole time, she doesn’t want a serious relationship to happen.
If your date has a devilish grin, she just wants to bed you.
If your date barely smiles, she is probably not interested in the conversation you are having.
The hand: Tools of action

Good signs:

If she extends his palms or if she exposes her wrists, chances are, your date likes you.
If your date has very animated hands while talking, she is very attentive and expressive.
If your date holds your hands in public, she is very proud of you.
If your date folds her hands with thumbs up, she has something positive to say.
If your date steeples her fingers, she is an intellectual person.
Bad signs:

If your date folds her hands with thumbs down, she has something negative to say.
If your date wrings hands constantly, she is insecure.
Others: Non- verbal flirtations

Good signs:

If your date stands or walks less than an arm’s length away from you, she wants to know you more intimately.
If your date leans in close, she is trying to get your attention.
Bad signs

If your date stands with her toes pointing towards each other, she needs reassurance that you like her.
If your date tugs at her clothing all the time, she is bored.
Each body part suggests a story on the real feelings your date has. Though they are important measures to check on your date, do not rely on them because traditions and conditions play a big part on them as well. Thanks for reading...Godman.

FIRST DATE TRAP!!!

Ok guys, how often have you been on a first date, where everything appeared to be going smoothly. You managed to avoid spilling red wine on her lap, insulting her parents, and you felt that you had a connection. Yet when you ring her back, she ‘has other plans’. So, what on earth did you do wrong? Easy, you acted like she was your girlfriend already. You showed an uncommon interest in everything she said and did. You acted like husband and wife, that made her uncomfortable. You viewed her as a conquest, and you barely knew her surname. Women generally like a first date to be casual, comfortable, and relaxed. Good conversation, interesting topics, and, most importantly, a guy who does not act like a freak.

Reverse the situations for a minute. Imagine you met a woman who talked about ‘future plans’ on a first date. She was talking about meeting her parents, picking out curtains for the sitting room in the house you are going to move in together, planning venues for the wedding etc. That would scare you right? Well it should! You may protest and say ‘I didn’t say anything like that to her’. That’s irrelevant, your voice didn’t say it, but your body language sure did. Ok, the wedding venue comment might be over the top but you get the idea. Women can read your body language like you can read a sports magazine. So, stop acting desperate, stop seeking attention like a new-born puppy and start getting these women to call you back!

First up, know that if the woman is not attracted to you, nothing you say or do will change her mind about you. Accept that you can only be friends at best with women like this and move on. When on your first date, just act calm and collected. Act like you don’t need her adulation, make some funny jokes at her expense. Let her know that you are not overawed by her beauty. Give her enough attention to stay interested, but not so much so as to smother her. If you spot any flaws she has, then poke fun at her, but be sure to do this in a humorous, jovial way, NOT in a mean nasty way (you want her to like you remember!). If she reacts badly to your friendly joking around, then she is probably not worth spending time with. Basically, enjoy your first date, pretend that she’s just a friend, and if other things happen, just roll with it.